When you’re hurt or learn a lesson, you stop doing so many things or you restrict yourself from so many things. Till my teenage years, I used to say, why people behave like this, or why they’re sad, or similar stuff. And then I turned 22 and those things started happening to me. And I stopped doing these 10 things in my life.
Stopped getting attached to anyone too soon
I said never, it will be the most difficult time for you when they leave. Not everyone stays.
Stopped trusting people easily
Forget about strangers or someone who you barely know, even the closest person betrays you. The closest person is going to hurt you the most.
Overthinking
Overthinking kills. We worry about the things that don’t actually exist. Overthinking leads you to mental problems.
Sport Betting
I love football and got to know about a betting app from my close friend. It is interesting at first, but later it becomes addictive, and you lose tons of money. I didn’t lose much but saved myself from that thing. I would like to thank myself for realizing it soon.
Scrolling
There is not just me who’s suffering from this thing. If you have a habit of continuously scrolling no matter how or what the content is, it’s hard to get over it. Thank God, I don’t do that much nowadays. Rather I keep myself indulging in sports or travel activities.
Giving time for people who don’t value your time
I used to be available for everyone. But not anymore. When I need them the most, they’re not there. They just make excuses. They appeared only if they needed me.
Being shy
I missed numerous opportunities just because I am shy and afraid to talk or face people. When you’ve the right skill, you shouldn’t be shy. It was hard at first, but I started getting used to it. It’s not that hard to make connections or talk to people.
Giving priority to others
You should be your first priority. Respect and love are one thing but helping yourself or self-love is the most important. Everything is temporary.
Going to Relatives
I wanted to do this from way back. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever made. My parents scold me and say why don’t you visit them? They’re our own people. But the fact is until we become successful, they’ll keep comparing you to others and when you’re successful, they’ll try to bring you down.
Becoming Angry
My colleagues don’t believe me whenever I say, “I used to be a short-tempered person”. I used to get angry and irritated on even smaller things and argue with people. I saw my mom worried about me and my anger issues and used to say, “anger kills yourself”. I felt it. My anger issue disappeared like a magic. Now I ignore those things and focus on positives.
After getting rid of these things, my life has become way more beautiful. I also want to stop other things that are drowning me and draining my energy. I’m on my way to create a life I always wanted. You should also stop doing these things and change your life forever.
